i was one of the lucky ones--my ma got religion when i was about 10 years old--dad followed a couple of years after. At 11 i was yanked out of school morning assemblies and religious lessons. no more xmas and birthdays.
baptised at 14..alongside my dad--and 6 other kids from the same KH. left school at 15--although dad wanted me to stay on--go to uni . pioneering at 16, working 2 days a week as a window cleaner.
courting at 18..married at 20..for the usual JW reason. became a dad at 23..at which point i left the cult.
BUT..my parents accepted my decision..and never shunned me. it helped we lived 150 miles away--so their cong really had no idea about me any more.
However it did mean my dad stopped being an elder after i while. ive wondered recently whether he was deleted because of his association with me. Maybe thats how he wanted it. I never asked him.